Guidance and training according to the baby's personality characteristics is the primary concern for moms and dads. In the education of 3-year-old boys, the two words we have repeatedly emphasized are "nature". How does 3 years old determine a boy's life? It lies in whether we can fully tap the baby's nature at this age. After doing this, Shirley Girl can provide you with some general training rules:

1. Create opportunities for the son to be a "protector"

For example, a mother came home from get off work, sitting on the sofa, and gently said to her son: "Mom is tired, can you lend me your shoulder to lean on?" The little guy didn't know why, but thought it was very interesting. Tilting her head to the side, leaning over her small shoulder, she said seriously, "Mom, don't you get tired by leaning on my shoulder?" Mom leaned her head gently on his shoulder, and said admiringly: " Yes! My son is a man, he needs to protect his mother when he grows up!" The little guy grinned suddenly. From then on, he always wanted to act as the "protector" of his mother, very proud.

2. The child can be upset, but can’t let him lose his temper casually

Some boys will tear and bite when they are upset and lose their temper. Once they develop a habit, they will not know how to control them when they are in trouble. Impulsivity and recklessness are not manly actions. In addition to telling the baby clearly about this requirement, parents should also do it personally so that they don't lose their temper in front of their children. Even when you are in a bad mood, try to deal with the problem calmly and resolve the bad mood to avoid spreading it to your son. With parents as role models, babies will learn quickly.

3. Let boys learn to wait and be patient

Many children say that wind is rain, and they have to give if they want, and they have no patience at all. When such things happen, parents must not give in half a step and must correct them in time. The qualities of waiting and patience are essential for a man. From a young age, parents should take advantage of all opportunities to cultivate his patience. This quality is very important to the future of the child.

4. Let him understand that the consequences are good or bad

From elementary school, you will have to bear the consequences, and you will naturally have a sense of responsibility when you grow up. Once, a boy got angry and suddenly threw a picture book on the ground. At this time, Dad saw it and did not allow his family to pick it up for him, but let him pick it up by himself. If he doesn't pick it up, just let the book be on the ground. Through such small things, let his son realize that he is responsible for what he does.

5. Parents should have an attitude that doesn’t concern themselves

When necessary, let the son understand that it is impossible for his parents to do all the things for him, and he needs to do many things by himself, so as to slowly cultivate his sense of independence.